1-in-4 women and 1-in-6 men are sexually abused before the age of 18.
Only 1-in-10 will ever share this with anyone, so the actual numbers are probably even worse.
Sexual abuse impacts every area of the victim’s life. The ripple effect on relationships, families, communities, and society is devastatingly powerful. We need healing.
That’s why New York Times Bestselling Author Cecil Murphey and I wrote Not Quite Healed: 40 Truths for Male Survivors of Childhood Sexual Abuse.
Lime Award Finalist for Excellence in Non-Fiction
Healing Is A Process
It doesn’t happen quickly. The journey can be challenging and painful, but the results are worth it. As survivors ourselves, Cec and I are well aware of the struggles, issues, concerns, and pain involved in dealing with a traumatic past. We know about living behind a mask, dealing with flashbacks, battling unpredictable emotions, and wrestling with the need to forgive.
We’ve been there. And we’re ready to offer you whatever help we can. In Not Quite Healed, we walk through 40 truths that can make a huge difference in a survivors life.
You’re not alone. And no, you’re not crazy. It happened. It mattered. It’s time to heal. Let’s take the next step together.
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What To Do
If you’re a survivor, Not Quite Healed was written for you. Invest in your healing. It’s time.
If you know a survivor, Not Quite Healed could be your way of helping them heal.
If you’re a pastor or church leader, Not Quite Healed can be a ministry tool to help you serve those who are hurting. So many are suffering in silence.
Another way to promote healing – consider having me speak on this issue to your group, church, or organization. Together we can help others heal. Send me an email. Let’s start talking.
Not Quite Healed” does an excellent job explaining why our own understanding and typical coping mechanisms are insufficient. Until I truly understood God’s love and forgiveness, I was stuck and unable to heal.Marcia
As I read Not Quite Healed, I realized you men were speaking my “language”, describing my experience. Thank you both for your vulnerable honesty.Mark
Your words have helped me and my family so much. I thought I was alone. Not anymore!Craig
I went through years of therapy and read tons of books. As it stands now, this is the best book I have read that discusses the healing process. It is the answer to “what do I do now?” feelings that I have deep inside. Thank you for this book.L. Willis
This is a must read for anyone who has suffered from childhood sexual abuse, those who may have friends, relatives or loved ones who have experienced this tragedy in their lives, or anyone wanting to simply know more about this subject and how healing can take place.Michael Bolling
The book is a great read. I love the honesty of Not Quite Healed. It provides practical knowledge, which can be applied to anyone going through pain and who desires healing.Stacy Wyatt
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In addition to Shattered, Gary Roe is the author of the award-winning bestsellers Please Be Patient, I’m Grieving, Heartbroken: Healing from the Loss of a Spouse and Surviving the Holidays Without You. He is also the co-author (with New York Times Bestseller Cecil Murphey) of Not Quite Healed and Saying Goodbye. Gary has been featured on Focus on the Family and CBN, and has more than 400 grief-related articles in print. He is a popular speaker at a wide variety of venues. He currently works as a chaplain and grief specialist with Hospice Brazos Valley in central Texas. Gary loves being a husband and father. He has seven adopted children, including three Colombian daughters. He enjoys swimming, hockey, corny jokes, and cool Hawaiian shirts. Gary and his wife Jen and family live in Texas.